We went and saw the movie Over the Hedge last Friday night. Good movie, simple plot. Basically, a group of woodland creatures wake up from hibernation to find that a subdivision has been built up around them. Lots of laughter was produced from several characters, namely Hammy, the squirrel, played by Steve Carrell.
The natural environment the creatures lived in was being encroached. They ventured out into the suburbia world through the "hedge" that surrounded the yards. What they saw there was unnatural to them. It was something that was feared at first, but then as they got used to the food that was available to them, they warmed up to it, and began to love it. Soon they could not get enough of it.
How much is that like us as Christians. Its almost as if when we wake up from our sleep in the morning, new things have risen up in the world to distract us from our goal in life. The world is offering new and grand things each and every day that keep us from living our lives like God would have us. Television shows that soften our morals, video games that teach us to kill, music that brainwashes us with depressing lyrics, and co-workers and friends who don't think God is important.
It gets harder and harder everyday to maintain your focus as a Christian, because we keep on coming up with things that replace God. Before you know it, your life is spent more over the hedge enjoying the world than it is reaching out to help the world.
What's even more are those who ride the hedge (or the fence) and try to live in both worlds. Giving God two or three hours of our time a week is not nearly enough, but we talk ourselves into believing it is.
God help us as we focus and commit our lives to you, and help us not focus on the pleasures of the world, but reaching out to the world instead.
Tuesday, May 30, 2006
Tuesday, May 23, 2006
I Really Need Some Help
On March 22, 2 months ago, I stopped drinking soft drinks, and caffeine as well. The greatest thing about that is that I haven't had even a slight desire to have a soft drink (aka pop, coke, soda). When I go to a fast food place, a restaurant, a gas station, a fellowship meal, anything that serves soft drinks, I have no desire for one.
Funny how I used to have one every hour on the hour, and now I don't crave them.
So what do I need help with? Maintainence? No, I have no desire. Temptation? No, its not there.
If you go back further in my blogging, you'll see that I promised to lose weight. Well, so far nothing. In fact, I think I might have gained 5 pounds or so. Why is it that I can give up something I had been addicted to, but now can't seem to give up all the other junk that is bombarding my life?
I get home from the office usually around 4:45-5:00, depending on when I leave. In Ashland City, I didn't really have "Office Hours", and usually left around 3:00, when I was motivated to work out and exercise. However, here, we have more of a set "office hour" schedule, and I can't leave to go work out at 3 or 3:30. By the time I get home at 5:00, there is usally something else to do in the evening, and I am either too wiped out or don't have enough time to work out.
Then enters in my eating habits. So what if you can give up soft drinks if you can't give up chips and french fries (like the other night, I ordered a steak with a baked potato, AND french fries). I know that my arteries are crying out for help, and I can't seem to stop and listen.
I need motivation to get going with this. I mean, if I can do the soft drink free thing, surely I should be able to give up other things as well!
Prayers are requested, motivation is requested, and teasing is not asked for. I know I'm big, but do people really think it helps when it is constantly said "Man, you're a big guy" or "I wouldn't want to mess with you, I mean, because you're a big guy, not because you're fat, but because you're just big..." I know I'm large, stop telling me. Its like telling me I'm bald.
I pray for God to change my taste buds so that they healthier foods will sound appetizing to me. I pray for God to intervene when I am faced with a decision of food choices. I pray that God will help me realize that this is HIS temple, and I am not taking care of it.
I hope all you readers out there will encourage. I need it.
Funny how I used to have one every hour on the hour, and now I don't crave them.
So what do I need help with? Maintainence? No, I have no desire. Temptation? No, its not there.
If you go back further in my blogging, you'll see that I promised to lose weight. Well, so far nothing. In fact, I think I might have gained 5 pounds or so. Why is it that I can give up something I had been addicted to, but now can't seem to give up all the other junk that is bombarding my life?
I get home from the office usually around 4:45-5:00, depending on when I leave. In Ashland City, I didn't really have "Office Hours", and usually left around 3:00, when I was motivated to work out and exercise. However, here, we have more of a set "office hour" schedule, and I can't leave to go work out at 3 or 3:30. By the time I get home at 5:00, there is usally something else to do in the evening, and I am either too wiped out or don't have enough time to work out.
Then enters in my eating habits. So what if you can give up soft drinks if you can't give up chips and french fries (like the other night, I ordered a steak with a baked potato, AND french fries). I know that my arteries are crying out for help, and I can't seem to stop and listen.
I need motivation to get going with this. I mean, if I can do the soft drink free thing, surely I should be able to give up other things as well!
Prayers are requested, motivation is requested, and teasing is not asked for. I know I'm big, but do people really think it helps when it is constantly said "Man, you're a big guy" or "I wouldn't want to mess with you, I mean, because you're a big guy, not because you're fat, but because you're just big..." I know I'm large, stop telling me. Its like telling me I'm bald.
I pray for God to change my taste buds so that they healthier foods will sound appetizing to me. I pray for God to intervene when I am faced with a decision of food choices. I pray that God will help me realize that this is HIS temple, and I am not taking care of it.
I hope all you readers out there will encourage. I need it.
Monday, May 22, 2006
Random Thoughts and Musings
24: Kristen and I bought season 4 on DVD the other day. Already made it through several hours. Everyone had told me that Season 4 was the best, and I always wondered how it could top 1-3. Well, so far, everyone is right. Season 4, like I said so far, is GREAT!
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Summer: Ah, the wonderful Memphis heat and humidity has finally made it, but summer also means Workcamp, Impact, Honduras Mission Trip, and several other things. Summers are busy, but summers are always fun.
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Roger Clemens: Reports still say he's dealing between Houston, Texas, Boston, and New York, but come on everyone...he wants 3-4 million a month! Who is going to pay that, except for my boys the YANKEES!!
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Debt Free: My wife and I are one step closer to being debt free. With a little help, hard work, and determination, we are paying off Kristen's student loan this week. We're going to write one big check and get it over with. Besides the house, that leaves us with only my mountain of a student loan -- sigh -- which won't be gone for a while.
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World Cup Soccer: Is it in you? Nah, me neither. I tried, but just can't get into it. The only time I got into it was during the last world cup, and I happened to be in Europe at the time...now they know how to get into Futbol!!
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Summer: Ah, the wonderful Memphis heat and humidity has finally made it, but summer also means Workcamp, Impact, Honduras Mission Trip, and several other things. Summers are busy, but summers are always fun.
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Roger Clemens: Reports still say he's dealing between Houston, Texas, Boston, and New York, but come on everyone...he wants 3-4 million a month! Who is going to pay that, except for my boys the YANKEES!!
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Debt Free: My wife and I are one step closer to being debt free. With a little help, hard work, and determination, we are paying off Kristen's student loan this week. We're going to write one big check and get it over with. Besides the house, that leaves us with only my mountain of a student loan -- sigh -- which won't be gone for a while.
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World Cup Soccer: Is it in you? Nah, me neither. I tried, but just can't get into it. The only time I got into it was during the last world cup, and I happened to be in Europe at the time...now they know how to get into Futbol!!
Wednesday, May 17, 2006
Top 50 Most InfluenTial people in my life, NUMBERS 3 through 1
All right, so I'm not sure whether or not anyone is reading this, because for some reason, our server/network here at the office won't allow anyone access to any blog sites. I can post, but cannot view any thing.
So hopefully, as I post #s 3 through 1, someone will be able to read this.
I must point out that really, the top 3 are tied. No one person in the top 3 has had more influence on my life than the other.
Oh, and by the way, I just learned today that it is spelled influential and not influencial. Ooops, I never spell things wrong, but it just looked so right, and no one corrected me except Microsoft Word.
#3 My Mother, Elaine Widick: I'll be the first one to admit that my mom and I are so much alike that often we don't get along. There are times when my mother is just like her mother, and she had a lot of problems with her. However, she's still my mom, and I still love her. When I was growing up, I was a momma's boy. I'll admit it. I would typically go to her if I needed or wanted something. She sacrificed for us by not working while we were in school and staying at home to be with us when we got home. I don't think she went back to work till I was in 8th grade or so. I know that was a huge sacrifice, but she wanted that for her children. She is really the best cook I've ever known, and always fixed Roast Beef and Mashed potatoes for me when I came home from college. She is a wonderful Christian lady and has instilled a lot of those values in to my life.
#2 My Father, Joe Widick: If I could model my life after anyone besides Jesus, it would be my father. He is the perfect role model for any child. My father taught me the value of hard work. He has taught just about any subject known to man at school, drove school buses, took pictures, unloaded trucks, worked in deep freezers, and many other things, all to keep food on the table for us. God has blessed him for his hard work by giving him many wonderful things now. My father is now an associate minister and Elder at the Maple Hill Church of Christ in Lebanon, TN. He has had more influence on the people of Lebanon than he'll ever know. So many people look up to and respect him. He's always easy to talk to, he listens to me, and gives me solid advice. I don't feel as if I got close to my father till I was older, and realized that my life was just like his: Teaching School in Houston, driving the bus for my college chorus, and now being a minister. Reality hits you hardest when it is glaring and obvious. No one could ever ask for a better father. Besides being all of the above things, the most noted quality of his that I don't possess is humility. He is the most humble man living on the earth. I love him as a father, a friend, and a brother in Christ.
#1 Kristen Joy Widick, my lovely and wonderful wife.
Let me tell you a bit about my wife. She is great. There's no one like her. People who knew me before I met my wife would be the first to tell you how much of an influence she has had on me. She is a perfect example of a Christian. She is a great woman who is kind to all. She is the hardest worker in the world, and will do most anything without grumbling (she doesn't like to take Chloe out in the rain, but other than that...).
You know how every guy always says "I married up" or "She's my better half". Well, I really did marry up. I don't deserve someone as great as she is, but God put her in my life for a reason. I know one day she'll be an excellent mother. She is the perfect wife. Her chicken chilli nachoes are to die for!! She is the best partner anyone could have in youth ministry as well. She loves my job, and wants to take it from me!! I love her so very much, and don't even remember what life was like without her.
I hope everyone has enjoyed the past few installments on my blog. Stay tuned for my exciting news in the life and times of the Widick family.
So hopefully, as I post #s 3 through 1, someone will be able to read this.
I must point out that really, the top 3 are tied. No one person in the top 3 has had more influence on my life than the other.
Oh, and by the way, I just learned today that it is spelled influential and not influencial. Ooops, I never spell things wrong, but it just looked so right, and no one corrected me except Microsoft Word.
#3 My Mother, Elaine Widick: I'll be the first one to admit that my mom and I are so much alike that often we don't get along. There are times when my mother is just like her mother, and she had a lot of problems with her. However, she's still my mom, and I still love her. When I was growing up, I was a momma's boy. I'll admit it. I would typically go to her if I needed or wanted something. She sacrificed for us by not working while we were in school and staying at home to be with us when we got home. I don't think she went back to work till I was in 8th grade or so. I know that was a huge sacrifice, but she wanted that for her children. She is really the best cook I've ever known, and always fixed Roast Beef and Mashed potatoes for me when I came home from college. She is a wonderful Christian lady and has instilled a lot of those values in to my life.
#2 My Father, Joe Widick: If I could model my life after anyone besides Jesus, it would be my father. He is the perfect role model for any child. My father taught me the value of hard work. He has taught just about any subject known to man at school, drove school buses, took pictures, unloaded trucks, worked in deep freezers, and many other things, all to keep food on the table for us. God has blessed him for his hard work by giving him many wonderful things now. My father is now an associate minister and Elder at the Maple Hill Church of Christ in Lebanon, TN. He has had more influence on the people of Lebanon than he'll ever know. So many people look up to and respect him. He's always easy to talk to, he listens to me, and gives me solid advice. I don't feel as if I got close to my father till I was older, and realized that my life was just like his: Teaching School in Houston, driving the bus for my college chorus, and now being a minister. Reality hits you hardest when it is glaring and obvious. No one could ever ask for a better father. Besides being all of the above things, the most noted quality of his that I don't possess is humility. He is the most humble man living on the earth. I love him as a father, a friend, and a brother in Christ.
#1 Kristen Joy Widick, my lovely and wonderful wife.
Let me tell you a bit about my wife. She is great. There's no one like her. People who knew me before I met my wife would be the first to tell you how much of an influence she has had on me. She is a perfect example of a Christian. She is a great woman who is kind to all. She is the hardest worker in the world, and will do most anything without grumbling (she doesn't like to take Chloe out in the rain, but other than that...).
You know how every guy always says "I married up" or "She's my better half". Well, I really did marry up. I don't deserve someone as great as she is, but God put her in my life for a reason. I know one day she'll be an excellent mother. She is the perfect wife. Her chicken chilli nachoes are to die for!! She is the best partner anyone could have in youth ministry as well. She loves my job, and wants to take it from me!! I love her so very much, and don't even remember what life was like without her.
I hope everyone has enjoyed the past few installments on my blog. Stay tuned for my exciting news in the life and times of the Widick family.
Tuesday, May 16, 2006
Top 50 Most Influencial People in my life, #10-4
Like any good season finale, I'm going to make you wait till tomorrow to read the top 3 most influencial people in my life. But here are numbers 10 through 4 of those people. This one might be a bit more lengthy.
10. Richard Willis: Funny how sometimes you can say that people you hardly ever see anymore are still influencial in your life. Richard is a few years younger than me, but was a great friend in college. He was a co-worker at Mid South Youth Camp, Scotland campaign buddy, groomsman in my wedding, and a genius. He is at Auburn finishing up some sort of doctorate degree in engineering, but also up until just recently served as a part time youth minister for a church. ( I don't think he's doing that anymore ). Richard always made time for God, and more importantly, always found time to be a Christian. Richard never spoke ill of someone behind their back, never skipped class, never did anything that would be taken as a non-christian act. His Christianity is very important to him. His head was screwed on straight, and was always there to listen to you. He could give a devotional on just about any topic you gave him. LAAAAAHHHHHH!!!
9. Jonathan McKnight: It might sound like you're reading the above description for Jonathan as well. He is a few years younger than me, a great friend in college, co worker at Mid South Youth Camp, Scotland Campaign Buddy, and groomsman in my wedding. He is also a genius, but in a different way. He knows everything there is to know about computers. He and his wife Rebecca live in Trinity, AL. Jonathan always taught me persistance, and going for the gold. He doesn't settle for less than the best when it comes to anything. He is a great athlete, great person, great friend.
8. Mike Fox: Mike was my high school Bible teacher at Friendship Christian School. He left to move to Metarie, Louisiana to be a minister. He came back and spoke at our high school graduation. We stayed in touch all that time, and even afterwards when I went on to college. After I finished my stay in Houston as a teacher, I moved to Ashland City, TN, to work with a church that Mike Fox was preaching at. He and I worked together there for about 2 years. Mike was a mentor to me, and was always willing to sit down with me and talk. We ate lunch together often, and was a very encouraging man. Mike left to go back to Metarie, and is still preaching there. I hear from him from time to time, and he always gives me a big hug when we see each other. I have so much respect for him and what he does and who he is.
7. Gary McKnight: Gary McKnight was my father away from home while I was in college. He was the director of the Sonshine Singers. He took me into his group and continued to train my voice. Most importantly he was a man of God. He got me interested in the Scotland campaigns, and trusted me with a lot of things while I was in his group. He had me over to his home often to talk, eat, and visit. To show how much he means to me, my wife and asked him to perform our wedding ceremony. He graciously accepted. Gary, to this day, still talks with me on a pretty regular basis. He is now in charge of the choral music department at FHU. He is an elder in the church at Henderson. I wouldn't be here today without his guidance in my life.
6. Kyle Hooper: Kyle Hooper and I first met at Mid South Youth Camp. He was my Junior Counselor one week. He came into the cabin wearing his Oakleys, driving his dad's big truck, and acting all cocky and arrogant. We both hated each other. Now, we're best friends. Kyle was a co-worker at Mid South, Scotland Campaign Buddy, Honduras campaign buddy, great friend in college, and continues to be a great friend, and was a groomsman in my wedding. Kyle is now in China till the first of the summer, where is doing some good work. Kyle and I are very similar in our personalities, and always fed off each other in a social situation. Kyle, I love you man. Hope to see you soon.
5. Kevin Westmoreland: Kevin was my roommate in college my last two years there, but we knew each other for longer than that. We lived on the same floor, he was in the same club I was in, and eventually joined the Sonshine Singers. Kevin was in my wedding, and was a Scotland Campaign Buddy, Honduras campaign buddy, and is one my best friends now. Kevin always made me laugh, shared a lot of the same interests I did and do, and is a inspiration to me as far as his faith in God is concerned. Kevin was mainly responsible for introducing Kristen to me, and is still a good friend to us both. He makes everyone laugh, and is growing in his faith daily. Kevin, you are a great friend, and I know you'll always be one.
4. Jason Bybee: Jason is one of the best friends anyone could ever have. You know those friends you have that you can say a word that makes you think of countless jokes and occurances that you've had together? Well, that's Jason. Jason moved into my neighborhood when I was like in 7th grade or so. We played ball a lot, also a whole lot of Sega and Nintendo and Playstation. He got me going to youth group activities with him at College Street (See Johnny Markham earlier). He is one of those people responsible for me becoming a Christian and giving my life to God. His mother and father had both passed away by the time I was a Sophomore in high school. He continued to give his life to God instead of straying away, and to this day that is an encouragement to me. Jason has been a youth minister, a campus minister, and a youth minister again. He now works as a youth minister at Mayfair church of Christ in Huntsville, AL. He and his wife Sunny have twins, Joshua and Abbey Kate. From A.M. 1000 to Nashville Sounds games, to Minnesota and down to White Water in Atlanta, we've had great times, and I know they will continue to get better. He is a guy I can go to when I'm stressed and need someone to listen to me, and he is the kinda guy you want on your side in any situation. Jason, you've always been there for me, and I thank you for that. I love you brother.
10. Richard Willis: Funny how sometimes you can say that people you hardly ever see anymore are still influencial in your life. Richard is a few years younger than me, but was a great friend in college. He was a co-worker at Mid South Youth Camp, Scotland campaign buddy, groomsman in my wedding, and a genius. He is at Auburn finishing up some sort of doctorate degree in engineering, but also up until just recently served as a part time youth minister for a church. ( I don't think he's doing that anymore ). Richard always made time for God, and more importantly, always found time to be a Christian. Richard never spoke ill of someone behind their back, never skipped class, never did anything that would be taken as a non-christian act. His Christianity is very important to him. His head was screwed on straight, and was always there to listen to you. He could give a devotional on just about any topic you gave him. LAAAAAHHHHHH!!!
9. Jonathan McKnight: It might sound like you're reading the above description for Jonathan as well. He is a few years younger than me, a great friend in college, co worker at Mid South Youth Camp, Scotland Campaign Buddy, and groomsman in my wedding. He is also a genius, but in a different way. He knows everything there is to know about computers. He and his wife Rebecca live in Trinity, AL. Jonathan always taught me persistance, and going for the gold. He doesn't settle for less than the best when it comes to anything. He is a great athlete, great person, great friend.
8. Mike Fox: Mike was my high school Bible teacher at Friendship Christian School. He left to move to Metarie, Louisiana to be a minister. He came back and spoke at our high school graduation. We stayed in touch all that time, and even afterwards when I went on to college. After I finished my stay in Houston as a teacher, I moved to Ashland City, TN, to work with a church that Mike Fox was preaching at. He and I worked together there for about 2 years. Mike was a mentor to me, and was always willing to sit down with me and talk. We ate lunch together often, and was a very encouraging man. Mike left to go back to Metarie, and is still preaching there. I hear from him from time to time, and he always gives me a big hug when we see each other. I have so much respect for him and what he does and who he is.
7. Gary McKnight: Gary McKnight was my father away from home while I was in college. He was the director of the Sonshine Singers. He took me into his group and continued to train my voice. Most importantly he was a man of God. He got me interested in the Scotland campaigns, and trusted me with a lot of things while I was in his group. He had me over to his home often to talk, eat, and visit. To show how much he means to me, my wife and asked him to perform our wedding ceremony. He graciously accepted. Gary, to this day, still talks with me on a pretty regular basis. He is now in charge of the choral music department at FHU. He is an elder in the church at Henderson. I wouldn't be here today without his guidance in my life.
6. Kyle Hooper: Kyle Hooper and I first met at Mid South Youth Camp. He was my Junior Counselor one week. He came into the cabin wearing his Oakleys, driving his dad's big truck, and acting all cocky and arrogant. We both hated each other. Now, we're best friends. Kyle was a co-worker at Mid South, Scotland Campaign Buddy, Honduras campaign buddy, great friend in college, and continues to be a great friend, and was a groomsman in my wedding. Kyle is now in China till the first of the summer, where is doing some good work. Kyle and I are very similar in our personalities, and always fed off each other in a social situation. Kyle, I love you man. Hope to see you soon.
5. Kevin Westmoreland: Kevin was my roommate in college my last two years there, but we knew each other for longer than that. We lived on the same floor, he was in the same club I was in, and eventually joined the Sonshine Singers. Kevin was in my wedding, and was a Scotland Campaign Buddy, Honduras campaign buddy, and is one my best friends now. Kevin always made me laugh, shared a lot of the same interests I did and do, and is a inspiration to me as far as his faith in God is concerned. Kevin was mainly responsible for introducing Kristen to me, and is still a good friend to us both. He makes everyone laugh, and is growing in his faith daily. Kevin, you are a great friend, and I know you'll always be one.
4. Jason Bybee: Jason is one of the best friends anyone could ever have. You know those friends you have that you can say a word that makes you think of countless jokes and occurances that you've had together? Well, that's Jason. Jason moved into my neighborhood when I was like in 7th grade or so. We played ball a lot, also a whole lot of Sega and Nintendo and Playstation. He got me going to youth group activities with him at College Street (See Johnny Markham earlier). He is one of those people responsible for me becoming a Christian and giving my life to God. His mother and father had both passed away by the time I was a Sophomore in high school. He continued to give his life to God instead of straying away, and to this day that is an encouragement to me. Jason has been a youth minister, a campus minister, and a youth minister again. He now works as a youth minister at Mayfair church of Christ in Huntsville, AL. He and his wife Sunny have twins, Joshua and Abbey Kate. From A.M. 1000 to Nashville Sounds games, to Minnesota and down to White Water in Atlanta, we've had great times, and I know they will continue to get better. He is a guy I can go to when I'm stressed and need someone to listen to me, and he is the kinda guy you want on your side in any situation. Jason, you've always been there for me, and I thank you for that. I love you brother.
Saturday, May 13, 2006
Top 50 Most Influencial People in My Life #20-11
As I get in to the top 20, one thing must be completely understood: In most of these instances, its harder to "Rank" the very top tier ones. Some may be ranked over others because of the length of time I've known them, or because of the family influence. Regardless, here are the most influencial in my life, numbers 20-11.
20. Johnny Markham: Johnny is the youth minister at the College Hills Church of Christ in Lebanon, TN (formerly College Street). Johnny was my co-youth minister growing up. My best friend Jason went to College Street, and I started going with him on Wednesday nights (My dad preached at a tiny church, and they encouraged me to go and be a part of a youth group, we had no youth group). Johnny had an immediate impact on me, and was one of the top five people responsible for showing me who God is and the need for salvation. Johnny is on the board at Winterfest and at IMPACT at Lipscomb, along with being involved in just about every aspect of youth ministry. He is a giant in his field, yet the most humble man in youth ministry. I'll never forget Monday night Bible studies, Minnesota Mission Trip, and getting advice from him in his office. God bless you Johnny.
19. Terry Reeves: When I was a freshman in 1992-93, I decided to go to Honduras for a two week trip. Terry Reeves, who is probably 20 years older than me, went on his first trip that year as well. He was a teacher at Ezell Harding Christian School at the time. He had to come a week later than everyone else, but we became instant friends, and he became an immediate mentor to me. For the next three or four years, we went together to TORCH in Honduras. Terry now lives in Sarasota, FL and takes hundreds of teenagers and adults to work in Honduras. He always is there for me to lend a listening ear, give advice, and pray for me as well. Whenever I see him, he always runs up to me and gives me a huge hug. Terry had a terrible bout with Cancer that he fought for about 3 years or so, and is now on the better side of that having beat it. He continues to take groups to Honduras. I love you brother! Come see me soon. We'll have to make another trip!
18. Randy and Jan Cromer: Randy and Jan were our adopted parents at Ashland City Church of Christ. They had kids that were similar in age to Kristen and me, so they loved going out to eat with us, having us over at their home, and talking with us about anything. They were so supportive and encouraging to us all the time. When times got rough, and Kristen and I were struggling, they were right there for us. We would not have made it there without them.
17. Keith Honeycutt: The most energetic, giving, and compassionate man I've ever known. Keith is our children's minister here at Ross Road. Up until about 2 months ago, he was just our 5th and 6th grade minister. Now he is over all the children. Keith's generosity is unequaled by anyone I have ever known. He funds a lot of his own projects, and he takes me out to lunch just about every two weeks, and never lets me pay. He was the voice that talked to me and encouraged me to come here, and gives me advice on how to deal with kids he used to have in his group. He is a great friend and fellow minister.
16. John Roberts: I hope he's not surprised that he made my top 20. John is a tremendous pulpit minister and friend. He has been the pulpit minister here at Ross since around 1999. He has always lended a hand to me when I need it, from moving, to putting up chair rail, to just about anything else I've needed. Most importantly, he listens to me when I need to vent, need advice or have a question about the scriptures. He got his Doctorate Degree from ACU, and knows quite a bit. In fact, I often call him the most intelligent man I've ever known (and he'll tell you Scott Van Wormer is the most intelligent man he's ever known). John is just about the best you could ask for in a minister, and most importantly a friend. John, thanks for all you do for me, you mean a lot to me.
15. Phillip and Leah Garton: Leah is Kristen's sister, and Phillip is Leah's husband. They got married the same summer we did (sorry parent's in law). Honestly, a year ago they probably wouldn't have made the list, not even the top 50. However, over the past year, our relationship has been hashed out and improved drastically. I respect both of them for their love for God, their desire to be close to us, and they are family. Phillip has showed me how to be patient and more understanding with things that pop up in life. They and their dog Bailey are visiting with us this weekend, before we go to visit the in-laws for Mother's Day.
14. Darrell Sims: Ah, a man's man. Loud and Boisterous, but hard working and Christian, Darrell is the famous father-in-law. I'm still scared of him from time to time, and not just when he drives his Expedition. I knew he was going to tell me I couldn't marry his daughter because I didn't like to hunt, but he let it happen anyways. What I respect about Darrell is his obvious and undying devotion to family and God. He's never afraid to tell you how he feels, but he also will listen to you and your opinions. Even though I was scared to death of him before we got married, he's been a tremendous blessing to me, and a great example. He runs his own business as a Contractor, and is highly successful in everything he does.
13. Sue Sims: Sue, the man's man's wife. Sue is my mother in law, very different from my mother ever was, but loving and gentle to all. She always wants to know how things are going, and is always planning out another trip to take. The most important thing to her when we all went to Disneyworld over Thanksgiving in 2005 was to get a family picture. After she got that, she was really happy. Family means a lot to her, and she has shown me the importance of that. I know she wants grandbabies real soon, however she's just gonna have to wait till we're ready!
12. Marty Widick: Martin Derrick Widick, my elder brother of 8 years, has always been a great brother to me. I remember growing up he would always find some time to play hot wheels with me. One time when I was in junior high and he had come home from college, he let me eat with pizza with him and his friends, and I thought that was just the coolest thing. We've shared some great times in our lives, and he's always been a great big brother.
11. Mary Anne Walton: Mary Anne Walton (Widick), my elder sister of 4 years, has always been a tremendous sister. We were closer than Marty and I, but that's just because of age. She always supported everything I did. I was the first one to find out she was going to marry her husband, and if there's ever anything I regret, it was not spending more time with them when we lived in Ashland City. Kristen and I really love to hang out with them. She is a great sister, mother to her kids, wife, and most of all friend. Her and her husband Kevin, who is also a great guy and has treated her well, mean a lot to me.
STAY TUNED!!! THE TOP 10 ARE NEXT!!! WHO WILL IT BE???
20. Johnny Markham: Johnny is the youth minister at the College Hills Church of Christ in Lebanon, TN (formerly College Street). Johnny was my co-youth minister growing up. My best friend Jason went to College Street, and I started going with him on Wednesday nights (My dad preached at a tiny church, and they encouraged me to go and be a part of a youth group, we had no youth group). Johnny had an immediate impact on me, and was one of the top five people responsible for showing me who God is and the need for salvation. Johnny is on the board at Winterfest and at IMPACT at Lipscomb, along with being involved in just about every aspect of youth ministry. He is a giant in his field, yet the most humble man in youth ministry. I'll never forget Monday night Bible studies, Minnesota Mission Trip, and getting advice from him in his office. God bless you Johnny.
19. Terry Reeves: When I was a freshman in 1992-93, I decided to go to Honduras for a two week trip. Terry Reeves, who is probably 20 years older than me, went on his first trip that year as well. He was a teacher at Ezell Harding Christian School at the time. He had to come a week later than everyone else, but we became instant friends, and he became an immediate mentor to me. For the next three or four years, we went together to TORCH in Honduras. Terry now lives in Sarasota, FL and takes hundreds of teenagers and adults to work in Honduras. He always is there for me to lend a listening ear, give advice, and pray for me as well. Whenever I see him, he always runs up to me and gives me a huge hug. Terry had a terrible bout with Cancer that he fought for about 3 years or so, and is now on the better side of that having beat it. He continues to take groups to Honduras. I love you brother! Come see me soon. We'll have to make another trip!
18. Randy and Jan Cromer: Randy and Jan were our adopted parents at Ashland City Church of Christ. They had kids that were similar in age to Kristen and me, so they loved going out to eat with us, having us over at their home, and talking with us about anything. They were so supportive and encouraging to us all the time. When times got rough, and Kristen and I were struggling, they were right there for us. We would not have made it there without them.
17. Keith Honeycutt: The most energetic, giving, and compassionate man I've ever known. Keith is our children's minister here at Ross Road. Up until about 2 months ago, he was just our 5th and 6th grade minister. Now he is over all the children. Keith's generosity is unequaled by anyone I have ever known. He funds a lot of his own projects, and he takes me out to lunch just about every two weeks, and never lets me pay. He was the voice that talked to me and encouraged me to come here, and gives me advice on how to deal with kids he used to have in his group. He is a great friend and fellow minister.
16. John Roberts: I hope he's not surprised that he made my top 20. John is a tremendous pulpit minister and friend. He has been the pulpit minister here at Ross since around 1999. He has always lended a hand to me when I need it, from moving, to putting up chair rail, to just about anything else I've needed. Most importantly, he listens to me when I need to vent, need advice or have a question about the scriptures. He got his Doctorate Degree from ACU, and knows quite a bit. In fact, I often call him the most intelligent man I've ever known (and he'll tell you Scott Van Wormer is the most intelligent man he's ever known). John is just about the best you could ask for in a minister, and most importantly a friend. John, thanks for all you do for me, you mean a lot to me.
15. Phillip and Leah Garton: Leah is Kristen's sister, and Phillip is Leah's husband. They got married the same summer we did (sorry parent's in law). Honestly, a year ago they probably wouldn't have made the list, not even the top 50. However, over the past year, our relationship has been hashed out and improved drastically. I respect both of them for their love for God, their desire to be close to us, and they are family. Phillip has showed me how to be patient and more understanding with things that pop up in life. They and their dog Bailey are visiting with us this weekend, before we go to visit the in-laws for Mother's Day.
14. Darrell Sims: Ah, a man's man. Loud and Boisterous, but hard working and Christian, Darrell is the famous father-in-law. I'm still scared of him from time to time, and not just when he drives his Expedition. I knew he was going to tell me I couldn't marry his daughter because I didn't like to hunt, but he let it happen anyways. What I respect about Darrell is his obvious and undying devotion to family and God. He's never afraid to tell you how he feels, but he also will listen to you and your opinions. Even though I was scared to death of him before we got married, he's been a tremendous blessing to me, and a great example. He runs his own business as a Contractor, and is highly successful in everything he does.
13. Sue Sims: Sue, the man's man's wife. Sue is my mother in law, very different from my mother ever was, but loving and gentle to all. She always wants to know how things are going, and is always planning out another trip to take. The most important thing to her when we all went to Disneyworld over Thanksgiving in 2005 was to get a family picture. After she got that, she was really happy. Family means a lot to her, and she has shown me the importance of that. I know she wants grandbabies real soon, however she's just gonna have to wait till we're ready!
12. Marty Widick: Martin Derrick Widick, my elder brother of 8 years, has always been a great brother to me. I remember growing up he would always find some time to play hot wheels with me. One time when I was in junior high and he had come home from college, he let me eat with pizza with him and his friends, and I thought that was just the coolest thing. We've shared some great times in our lives, and he's always been a great big brother.
11. Mary Anne Walton: Mary Anne Walton (Widick), my elder sister of 4 years, has always been a tremendous sister. We were closer than Marty and I, but that's just because of age. She always supported everything I did. I was the first one to find out she was going to marry her husband, and if there's ever anything I regret, it was not spending more time with them when we lived in Ashland City. Kristen and I really love to hang out with them. She is a great sister, mother to her kids, wife, and most of all friend. Her and her husband Kevin, who is also a great guy and has treated her well, mean a lot to me.
STAY TUNED!!! THE TOP 10 ARE NEXT!!! WHO WILL IT BE???
Friday, May 12, 2006
Just like a good cliffhanger
You'll have to wait till next week to get the Top 50 Most Influencial People in my life, numbers 20 through 1. This weekend is Mother's Weekend. Busy busy for me. Today I had to make a run to Highland Street CofC to drop off workcamp forms, go home and cut the grass, take some friends to the airport, and then tomorrow my wife is having one of those "Pampered Chef" parties. Then we're going to make a trip to see my wife's mother, and come back, all to start all over again.
Monday will bring you #20-11, and then on Tuesday the TOP TEN!!!! I know you're all on edge to see who makes it.
Peace out.
Monday will bring you #20-11, and then on Tuesday the TOP TEN!!!! I know you're all on edge to see who makes it.
Peace out.
Thursday, May 11, 2006
Top 50 Most Influencial People In My Life #30-21
Here they are, numbers 30-21 of the most top influencial people in my life. Read on, and enjoy!
30. Steve Hawley: Coach Steve Hawley (its so weird saying your first name Steve) was my High School History and Economics teacher. He also coached basketball at FCS and at Westbury Christian (where I ended up working right after college). After one of my trips to Honduras, Steve asked if there was something he could help do to for the children in Honduras. I told him about an orphanage that was hoped to be built by Harris Goodwin (see earlier in the list). Coach Hawley started for that very purpose doing the Change Days at FCS. I believe the first year we raised maybe around $1000 or so, but by the time I was a senior it was up to around $5000. Now, it is a combined effort between FCS and WCS, and raises a lot more than that. Coach Hawley helped me a lot in Houston as well, when I moved there and did not know a lot of people. He has a great book out called "What Then Is This Child Going To Be?" and if you click on the picture, it will take you to his website. He also has a blog and you can go that HERE.
29. Travis Shivers: Travis was one of my kids in the Ashland City Youth Group. He stood out in the crowd of teenagers in a way I've never seen. And, all in a good way! He was a leader without even trying. He got involved in just about everything we did. He grew spiritually as we were there, and now has committed to go and play soccer at FHU this next year. I've always admired teens who were self motivators. Travis is indeed one of those.
28. Julie Henry: Julie is a parent in my youth group here at Ross. Recently we've been getting a lot of neighborhood kids in. Our neighborhood is comprised of mainly lower economic level families, and also a lot of different cultures as well. Julie knows no stranger. Everyone she interacts with loves her. She has a great rapport with all the new teens that have been coming in to visit. She's always willing to do anything I need, and is always getting involved with the kids, getting to know them, and genuinely cares about them.
27. David and Judy Franklin: David and Judy have taken on a role here of parenting Kristen and me. They have had us in their home, are leaders of our life group, call us and encourage us, and have even kept out dog. They are both so sincerely kind to us, and when they ask how things are going, they actually want to know and talk about it. David is an elder here at Ross, and is a good leader in the church as well.
26. Michael and Catherine Davis: One word -- Friends. The Ashland City Church was a great church, but they had no one our age to hang out with. Enter Michael and Catherine. From the first day we moved to Memphis, we had friends in them. They helped us move to the apartment, from the apartment into our house, we've gone on numerous outings together, and they are some great competitors in Cranium and Phase 10. They keep Chloe, our dog, when we go out of town, and don't seem to complain about it. They help us out in the youth group, by teaching with the junior high on Sunday mornings and being adult volunteers on Wednesday night. Michael is our Candy guy, and Catherine always will do anything you ask her to. They have some of the biggest servant hearts in the church.
25. Sarah Dill: Sarah is a freshman in college in Senatobia, MS. She comes on occasion to Ross. She graduated last year, and lives about 45 minutes away, hence the occasion to Ross line. Her story to me is grand. Just about 2 years ago, she was not a Christian, didn't care about Church, and came to church one evening as a joke to get a few laughs. What she didn't realize was how God was going to use her. She was touched by things that were said, the kind of people who were there, and became a Christian. She went on a New York Mission trip last year and is going on our Honduras campaign this year. She has a super bubbly personality that is contagious. You can't be in a bad mood when you're around her.
24. Ex Girlfriend: Ex girlfriend to remain nameless (just in case she is reading this, i'd hate to tick her off, but I highly doubt she's reading this). There was a girl that I started dating rather seriously in college when I was a freshman. It was really to a point where we talked about spending the rest of our lives together. She had drawn me away, however, from being a faithful Christian. She was into social drinking, which I was not, and she knew how I felt. (Funny, how when you don't go to church that much, you still have that Christian conviction about things.) Basically one day, I told her she had a choice, either stop drinking, or I'm gone. She couldn't let go of the worldly life style. Our breakup, however led to a renewing of my life with God, with friends, with my social life, with school, and on top of that, God had someone so much better for me waiting.
23. Steve Davidson: Steve is in charge of Spiritual outreach at Lipscomb University. I didn't go to Lipscomb, but Steve had a tremendous impact on my life. He was in charge of the TORCH campaigns that went to Honduras. From 8th Grade till I graduated High School, he led me on 5 campaigns. He took teenagers to Honduras for 2 or 3 weeks out of his summer. He is still highly dedicated to the work in Honduras, and is the head hancho for the Jovenes En Camino Children's home near Tegucigalpa.
22. Emily Niemann: Emily Niemann was on the Girl's basketball team on which I was the assistant coach at Westbury Christian. On top of winning the State Championship that year, Emily went on to go to Baylor, where she was 6th man off the bench for their National Championship year. She has since transferred to University of California Santa Barbara. She had a work ethic unmatched by anyone her age, or older for that matter. She spent hours in the gym training, shooting, and doing drills by herself. She always was kind and genuine, and every day in practice I would rebound for her and we would talk about our day.
21. Bradley Crider: Mr. Crider was the first teacher I remember at Westbury Christian who spoke to me. He came into my room, asked me how things were going, and if there was anything he could do to help me out. Little did I know how good of friends we would become. He was a constant source of encouragement to me while I was teaching, and is a phenomanal teacher himself. He has been national recognized, and is a genious when it comes to History and the like. I would never have made it through my two years in Houston without him.
30. Steve Hawley: Coach Steve Hawley (its so weird saying your first name Steve) was my High School History and Economics teacher. He also coached basketball at FCS and at Westbury Christian (where I ended up working right after college). After one of my trips to Honduras, Steve asked if there was something he could help do to for the children in Honduras. I told him about an orphanage that was hoped to be built by Harris Goodwin (see earlier in the list). Coach Hawley started for that very purpose doing the Change Days at FCS. I believe the first year we raised maybe around $1000 or so, but by the time I was a senior it was up to around $5000. Now, it is a combined effort between FCS and WCS, and raises a lot more than that. Coach Hawley helped me a lot in Houston as well, when I moved there and did not know a lot of people. He has a great book out called "What Then Is This Child Going To Be?" and if you click on the picture, it will take you to his website. He also has a blog and you can go that HERE.
29. Travis Shivers: Travis was one of my kids in the Ashland City Youth Group. He stood out in the crowd of teenagers in a way I've never seen. And, all in a good way! He was a leader without even trying. He got involved in just about everything we did. He grew spiritually as we were there, and now has committed to go and play soccer at FHU this next year. I've always admired teens who were self motivators. Travis is indeed one of those.
28. Julie Henry: Julie is a parent in my youth group here at Ross. Recently we've been getting a lot of neighborhood kids in. Our neighborhood is comprised of mainly lower economic level families, and also a lot of different cultures as well. Julie knows no stranger. Everyone she interacts with loves her. She has a great rapport with all the new teens that have been coming in to visit. She's always willing to do anything I need, and is always getting involved with the kids, getting to know them, and genuinely cares about them.
27. David and Judy Franklin: David and Judy have taken on a role here of parenting Kristen and me. They have had us in their home, are leaders of our life group, call us and encourage us, and have even kept out dog. They are both so sincerely kind to us, and when they ask how things are going, they actually want to know and talk about it. David is an elder here at Ross, and is a good leader in the church as well.
26. Michael and Catherine Davis: One word -- Friends. The Ashland City Church was a great church, but they had no one our age to hang out with. Enter Michael and Catherine. From the first day we moved to Memphis, we had friends in them. They helped us move to the apartment, from the apartment into our house, we've gone on numerous outings together, and they are some great competitors in Cranium and Phase 10. They keep Chloe, our dog, when we go out of town, and don't seem to complain about it. They help us out in the youth group, by teaching with the junior high on Sunday mornings and being adult volunteers on Wednesday night. Michael is our Candy guy, and Catherine always will do anything you ask her to. They have some of the biggest servant hearts in the church.
25. Sarah Dill: Sarah is a freshman in college in Senatobia, MS. She comes on occasion to Ross. She graduated last year, and lives about 45 minutes away, hence the occasion to Ross line. Her story to me is grand. Just about 2 years ago, she was not a Christian, didn't care about Church, and came to church one evening as a joke to get a few laughs. What she didn't realize was how God was going to use her. She was touched by things that were said, the kind of people who were there, and became a Christian. She went on a New York Mission trip last year and is going on our Honduras campaign this year. She has a super bubbly personality that is contagious. You can't be in a bad mood when you're around her.
24. Ex Girlfriend: Ex girlfriend to remain nameless (just in case she is reading this, i'd hate to tick her off, but I highly doubt she's reading this). There was a girl that I started dating rather seriously in college when I was a freshman. It was really to a point where we talked about spending the rest of our lives together. She had drawn me away, however, from being a faithful Christian. She was into social drinking, which I was not, and she knew how I felt. (Funny, how when you don't go to church that much, you still have that Christian conviction about things.) Basically one day, I told her she had a choice, either stop drinking, or I'm gone. She couldn't let go of the worldly life style. Our breakup, however led to a renewing of my life with God, with friends, with my social life, with school, and on top of that, God had someone so much better for me waiting.
23. Steve Davidson: Steve is in charge of Spiritual outreach at Lipscomb University. I didn't go to Lipscomb, but Steve had a tremendous impact on my life. He was in charge of the TORCH campaigns that went to Honduras. From 8th Grade till I graduated High School, he led me on 5 campaigns. He took teenagers to Honduras for 2 or 3 weeks out of his summer. He is still highly dedicated to the work in Honduras, and is the head hancho for the Jovenes En Camino Children's home near Tegucigalpa.
22. Emily Niemann: Emily Niemann was on the Girl's basketball team on which I was the assistant coach at Westbury Christian. On top of winning the State Championship that year, Emily went on to go to Baylor, where she was 6th man off the bench for their National Championship year. She has since transferred to University of California Santa Barbara. She had a work ethic unmatched by anyone her age, or older for that matter. She spent hours in the gym training, shooting, and doing drills by herself. She always was kind and genuine, and every day in practice I would rebound for her and we would talk about our day.
21. Bradley Crider: Mr. Crider was the first teacher I remember at Westbury Christian who spoke to me. He came into my room, asked me how things were going, and if there was anything he could do to help me out. Little did I know how good of friends we would become. He was a constant source of encouragement to me while I was teaching, and is a phenomanal teacher himself. He has been national recognized, and is a genious when it comes to History and the like. I would never have made it through my two years in Houston without him.
Wednesday, May 10, 2006
50 Most Influencial People In My Life #40-31
In continuing with my top 50 most influencial people in my life, I continue with #'s 40-31.
40. Edwin Goodwin: Edwin is the son of Harris Goodwin, mentioned in yesterday's post. Edwin ran the Amicus Clinic in Tegucigalpa, Honduras. When I started doing my own campaigns, he would run the show for me. He had an impact on thousands of people worldwide, but had a special place in my heart. Adopted as a young boy by Harris, he was able to turn his blessing of life into a blessing for so many. Edwin passed away at around the age of 40 from complications due to pneumonia.
39. Patricia Bush: Ah, Mrs. Bush. Ou est la fenetre? Je ne sais pas? Mrs. Bush had many special places in my heart in high school. She was my class sponsor, my French Teacher, my tour guide through England and France, and accompanied me and several of my friends on our Senior Trip to Gulf Shores. She was a loving woman, and her husband was just as special to me. She made learning the French Language a joy. She made my first trip to Paris, France a great one!
38. Frank Bell: Frank is the caretaker at Mid South Youth Camp. He also went on all of the Scotland Campaigns that I have been on. He is a goofy guy with a great sense of humor and is able to lighten the mood in any setting. He was always there to lend a listening ear and a caring heart. We'll forever go down in history as creating the "Round About" song, set to the tune of "Ring It Out"
37. My Great Uncle Jack Widick: Here's the interesting point on my Great Uncle Jack, I only knew him up until I was about 6 or 7 years old. But I'll never forget him. We would go to his house after we made the rounds at Thanksgiving. He passed away from Alzheimer's Disease when I was in first or second grade. The reason he is on this list is because of the influence he had on my father, and how much my father used to talk about him. I'll also never forget his funeral, because it was the first funeral I remember attending, and it was also the first time I saw my father cry.
36. Tony and Melba Blue: These two wonderful souls were like grandparents to Kristen and I while we were in Ashland City. Never have I met more generous people, giving us money for trips we took in the youth group, helping us out when we went on mission trips, and inviting us into their home. One day, when Kristen and I both came down with a terrible case of the flu, Melba made us her famous Taco Soup, and to this day Kristen and I still eat that throughout the winter, and always will.
35. Dave Ramsey: Okay, so my communication with Dave is very limited. I called to ask him one time if he would help us out with some fund raising, and if not if he could give us some fund raising advice. That's the limit of my communication with him. However, he has had a tremendous impact on my life. I first heard him when I was in college, and vowed never to use a credit card. To this day, I never have. My wife and I have no car debt thanks to him, and are almost done paying for her student loan thanks to his advice. After that, the only debt we will have left is my student loan. We have an emergency fund to take care of problems, and hopefully we'll be able to give money away thanks to him.
34. Mike Wamble: Mike used to be the youth minister at Henderson Church of Christ, and now is youth minister at my mom and dad's home congregation at Maple Hill in Lebanon, TN. Mike has given me wonderful advice in youth ministry. He sat down with me for about 2 hours before I took the current job I'm in to help me understand transitioning and how to do that most effectively. He is a great youth minister, actually training teenagers to study and use the Bible. I respect him, and owe him gratitude in helping me in my struggles as a youth minister.
33. Granddaddy Widick: My granddaddy Widick is awesome. He is around 80 years old, but still gets out in the yard and does his yard work, and walks several miles a day. As long as I can remember, he's been the strong grandfather type person, always there for you, squeezing your knee to make you squirm, giving you candy, and letting us play in his basement. He continues to amaze me as he gets older. Most of all, he helped mold who my father is today.
32. Granddaddy Smith: Really, 33 and 32 are in a tie. My Granddaddy Smith was a tremendous Grandfather. If you needed anything fixed, he could do it. He served as a mechanic in WW2, and was the janitor/maintenance man for several places in Nashville. I loved going into his basement and playing with all his tools. He used to take me to the park near his home when I was younger. Mainly I'll always remember him taking me to Krystal to eat those wonderful little burgers. He passed away when I was in college. I'll always blame him, however, for me being bald (he was bald when he was around 20 like me, and as you know, you get your hair from your mother's father).
31. Scott Freeman: Scott was my youth minister when I was a junior and senior in high school. Scott is now a minister in Waco, TX. Scott had a warped sense of humor, and to be honest, I had a hard time getting to know him and like him. However, the more I was around him, I saw a passion for God in him that was unequaled. He went through some adversity in his life, and came out ahead of that by giving his life continually to God, instead of giving up. He's married now and has several kids, and his website has over 50,000 hits on it! Check it out HERE!
40. Edwin Goodwin: Edwin is the son of Harris Goodwin, mentioned in yesterday's post. Edwin ran the Amicus Clinic in Tegucigalpa, Honduras. When I started doing my own campaigns, he would run the show for me. He had an impact on thousands of people worldwide, but had a special place in my heart. Adopted as a young boy by Harris, he was able to turn his blessing of life into a blessing for so many. Edwin passed away at around the age of 40 from complications due to pneumonia.
39. Patricia Bush: Ah, Mrs. Bush. Ou est la fenetre? Je ne sais pas? Mrs. Bush had many special places in my heart in high school. She was my class sponsor, my French Teacher, my tour guide through England and France, and accompanied me and several of my friends on our Senior Trip to Gulf Shores. She was a loving woman, and her husband was just as special to me. She made learning the French Language a joy. She made my first trip to Paris, France a great one!
38. Frank Bell: Frank is the caretaker at Mid South Youth Camp. He also went on all of the Scotland Campaigns that I have been on. He is a goofy guy with a great sense of humor and is able to lighten the mood in any setting. He was always there to lend a listening ear and a caring heart. We'll forever go down in history as creating the "Round About" song, set to the tune of "Ring It Out"
37. My Great Uncle Jack Widick: Here's the interesting point on my Great Uncle Jack, I only knew him up until I was about 6 or 7 years old. But I'll never forget him. We would go to his house after we made the rounds at Thanksgiving. He passed away from Alzheimer's Disease when I was in first or second grade. The reason he is on this list is because of the influence he had on my father, and how much my father used to talk about him. I'll also never forget his funeral, because it was the first funeral I remember attending, and it was also the first time I saw my father cry.
36. Tony and Melba Blue: These two wonderful souls were like grandparents to Kristen and I while we were in Ashland City. Never have I met more generous people, giving us money for trips we took in the youth group, helping us out when we went on mission trips, and inviting us into their home. One day, when Kristen and I both came down with a terrible case of the flu, Melba made us her famous Taco Soup, and to this day Kristen and I still eat that throughout the winter, and always will.
35. Dave Ramsey: Okay, so my communication with Dave is very limited. I called to ask him one time if he would help us out with some fund raising, and if not if he could give us some fund raising advice. That's the limit of my communication with him. However, he has had a tremendous impact on my life. I first heard him when I was in college, and vowed never to use a credit card. To this day, I never have. My wife and I have no car debt thanks to him, and are almost done paying for her student loan thanks to his advice. After that, the only debt we will have left is my student loan. We have an emergency fund to take care of problems, and hopefully we'll be able to give money away thanks to him.
34. Mike Wamble: Mike used to be the youth minister at Henderson Church of Christ, and now is youth minister at my mom and dad's home congregation at Maple Hill in Lebanon, TN. Mike has given me wonderful advice in youth ministry. He sat down with me for about 2 hours before I took the current job I'm in to help me understand transitioning and how to do that most effectively. He is a great youth minister, actually training teenagers to study and use the Bible. I respect him, and owe him gratitude in helping me in my struggles as a youth minister.
33. Granddaddy Widick: My granddaddy Widick is awesome. He is around 80 years old, but still gets out in the yard and does his yard work, and walks several miles a day. As long as I can remember, he's been the strong grandfather type person, always there for you, squeezing your knee to make you squirm, giving you candy, and letting us play in his basement. He continues to amaze me as he gets older. Most of all, he helped mold who my father is today.
32. Granddaddy Smith: Really, 33 and 32 are in a tie. My Granddaddy Smith was a tremendous Grandfather. If you needed anything fixed, he could do it. He served as a mechanic in WW2, and was the janitor/maintenance man for several places in Nashville. I loved going into his basement and playing with all his tools. He used to take me to the park near his home when I was younger. Mainly I'll always remember him taking me to Krystal to eat those wonderful little burgers. He passed away when I was in college. I'll always blame him, however, for me being bald (he was bald when he was around 20 like me, and as you know, you get your hair from your mother's father).
31. Scott Freeman: Scott was my youth minister when I was a junior and senior in high school. Scott is now a minister in Waco, TX. Scott had a warped sense of humor, and to be honest, I had a hard time getting to know him and like him. However, the more I was around him, I saw a passion for God in him that was unequaled. He went through some adversity in his life, and came out ahead of that by giving his life continually to God, instead of giving up. He's married now and has several kids, and his website has over 50,000 hits on it! Check it out HERE!
Tuesday, May 09, 2006
Top 50 Most Influencial People In My Life #50-41
I’ve decided to do a list of the 50 most influential people in my life. For the next few days, I’ll but a few on the list, going from #50 to the most important influences in the top 10.
Now, before you read on, your name might not appear on this list. That doesn’t necessarily mean that you have not influenced me, but its just that you at this time in my life have not made the top 50.
Of course, not included in this list are the obvious God and Jesus and Holy Spirit answers. They are obviously a huge influence on my life, being my Creator and all.
So here goes the rules: All the people listed in my top 50 are people who I have had actual communication with. No superstars or celebrities (unless I’ve had contact with them). In order for you to be on the list, I must have talked to you sometime in my life.
50. Gene Stallings: Former University of Alabama Crimson Tide head football coach. First and foremost, he was a Christian. Second, he was a great leader. Third, when I sent him a letter in high school telling him how much I thought of him, he actually sent me a personal letter back. I still have it to this day.
49. Greg Herring: Mr. Herring was my high school chorus and drama director. He helped mold and shape my voice and character in a way no one else could have. Even though he was limited in his financial resources at F.C.S. (my high school), he made due with what he had to put on excellent programs.
48. Brad Montague: Brad Chad! You can check him out at www.bradmontague.com or you can look at www.myspace.com/bradmontague and check out his music. I knew Brad when he was a camper at Mid South Youth Camp, and then I got to work with him when he was old enough to be a counselor. His humor is always a lift in the middle of long day.
47. Steve Johnson: Steve is the director of the Scotland Campaigns of which I have been on three. His love for the Lord is amazing, and his passion to show the lost of Western Europe the love of God is unequaled.
46. Alan and Ruth Moyes: The people in Scotland who work with the church in Kirkaldy. These two are truly wonderful people who work with a great church. Alan’s easy going attitude is contagious, and is helpful working with a culture who does not believe that God is all that important.
45. Robert and Faye Hughes: These two wonderful people are who Kristen and I stayed with our last trip to Scotland. Along with stuffing us with wonderful European Chocolates, Robert is the only person I know who is passionate about church history, so much so that he wrote a book on the history of the church in Scotland.
44. George and Jean Pendlebury: The last of the Scottish Influence. George and Jean kept me and some others on my first trip to Scotland. George is the definition of a hard worker, and is a true deacon in the church. He puts God before everything, which is so rare in the Scottish culture.
43. Wayne Miller: Wayne is the pulpit minister where my parents attend and work. Wayne is the nicest man I know. Never have I met a guy who genuinely cares about others like Wayne. Knowledgeable, kind, and passionate about his work, Wayne makes a wonderful servant of God.
42. Roy Sharp: Coach Sharp was the director of Mid South Youth Camp, a place I worked for 4 wonderful summers. He was really one of my first bosses. His dedication to that camp is unparalleled. The influence he has had on thousands upon thousands of teenagers is amazing.
41. Harris Goodwin: Harris had a dream to start an orphanage in Honduras. After he stepped down from the position of President at the Baxter school of preaching in Tegucigalpa, Honduras, Harris made his dream a reality. I’ve never known anyone else to go up to complete strangers and talk to them about God like Harris does.
Now, before you read on, your name might not appear on this list. That doesn’t necessarily mean that you have not influenced me, but its just that you at this time in my life have not made the top 50.
Of course, not included in this list are the obvious God and Jesus and Holy Spirit answers. They are obviously a huge influence on my life, being my Creator and all.
So here goes the rules: All the people listed in my top 50 are people who I have had actual communication with. No superstars or celebrities (unless I’ve had contact with them). In order for you to be on the list, I must have talked to you sometime in my life.
50. Gene Stallings: Former University of Alabama Crimson Tide head football coach. First and foremost, he was a Christian. Second, he was a great leader. Third, when I sent him a letter in high school telling him how much I thought of him, he actually sent me a personal letter back. I still have it to this day.
49. Greg Herring: Mr. Herring was my high school chorus and drama director. He helped mold and shape my voice and character in a way no one else could have. Even though he was limited in his financial resources at F.C.S. (my high school), he made due with what he had to put on excellent programs.
48. Brad Montague: Brad Chad! You can check him out at www.bradmontague.com or you can look at www.myspace.com/bradmontague and check out his music. I knew Brad when he was a camper at Mid South Youth Camp, and then I got to work with him when he was old enough to be a counselor. His humor is always a lift in the middle of long day.
47. Steve Johnson: Steve is the director of the Scotland Campaigns of which I have been on three. His love for the Lord is amazing, and his passion to show the lost of Western Europe the love of God is unequaled.
46. Alan and Ruth Moyes: The people in Scotland who work with the church in Kirkaldy. These two are truly wonderful people who work with a great church. Alan’s easy going attitude is contagious, and is helpful working with a culture who does not believe that God is all that important.
45. Robert and Faye Hughes: These two wonderful people are who Kristen and I stayed with our last trip to Scotland. Along with stuffing us with wonderful European Chocolates, Robert is the only person I know who is passionate about church history, so much so that he wrote a book on the history of the church in Scotland.
44. George and Jean Pendlebury: The last of the Scottish Influence. George and Jean kept me and some others on my first trip to Scotland. George is the definition of a hard worker, and is a true deacon in the church. He puts God before everything, which is so rare in the Scottish culture.
43. Wayne Miller: Wayne is the pulpit minister where my parents attend and work. Wayne is the nicest man I know. Never have I met a guy who genuinely cares about others like Wayne. Knowledgeable, kind, and passionate about his work, Wayne makes a wonderful servant of God.
42. Roy Sharp: Coach Sharp was the director of Mid South Youth Camp, a place I worked for 4 wonderful summers. He was really one of my first bosses. His dedication to that camp is unparalleled. The influence he has had on thousands upon thousands of teenagers is amazing.
41. Harris Goodwin: Harris had a dream to start an orphanage in Honduras. After he stepped down from the position of President at the Baxter school of preaching in Tegucigalpa, Honduras, Harris made his dream a reality. I’ve never known anyone else to go up to complete strangers and talk to them about God like Harris does.
Monday, May 08, 2006
Texas De Brazil
I saw a burger king commercial this morning about how guys are sick of eating the fru fru food, and all they want is meat. If what you are looking for is meat, look no further than Texas De Brazil. There are few scattered around the country, and one of those happens to be in Memphis.
Now don't get too excited, it costs $35+ to eat there, but let me tell you what you get: ALL YOU CAN EAT STEAK AND OTHER MEATS!!
They have these guys that carry swords around that are full of different kinds of meat. They come to your table, and if you have your little meat card on green, they load your plate up. If its on red, they let you eat and enjoy for a while.
The meats that we ate last night, in no particular order of favorites:
1. Flank Steak
2. Garlic Sirloin
3. Top Sirloin
4. Filet Mignon
5. Filet Mignon wrapped in bacon
6. Parmesean Chicken
7. Parmesean Pork
8. Leg of Lamb
9. Lamb Chop
10. Polish Sausage
11. Ribs
12. Chicken breast wrapped in bacon
13. Pork Tenderloin
I believe there were a few others, but you get the point. Not too shabby. On top of all the meat, you get unlimited trips to their 40 item Salad bar, including Lobster Bisque, Sushi, and fine cheeses.
Guys, if you live near one of these restaurants, GO! Its well worth it. Last night we took our three seniors there for Senior night. I had been twice before for a special occasion. It is the best place I've ever eaten.
Now don't get too excited, it costs $35+ to eat there, but let me tell you what you get: ALL YOU CAN EAT STEAK AND OTHER MEATS!!
They have these guys that carry swords around that are full of different kinds of meat. They come to your table, and if you have your little meat card on green, they load your plate up. If its on red, they let you eat and enjoy for a while.
The meats that we ate last night, in no particular order of favorites:
1. Flank Steak
2. Garlic Sirloin
3. Top Sirloin
4. Filet Mignon
5. Filet Mignon wrapped in bacon
6. Parmesean Chicken
7. Parmesean Pork
8. Leg of Lamb
9. Lamb Chop
10. Polish Sausage
11. Ribs
12. Chicken breast wrapped in bacon
13. Pork Tenderloin
I believe there were a few others, but you get the point. Not too shabby. On top of all the meat, you get unlimited trips to their 40 item Salad bar, including Lobster Bisque, Sushi, and fine cheeses.
Guys, if you live near one of these restaurants, GO! Its well worth it. Last night we took our three seniors there for Senior night. I had been twice before for a special occasion. It is the best place I've ever eaten.
Friday, May 05, 2006
Static
Recently I made a trip of about 250 miles one way through the winding country highway of Highway 72 into Huntsville, AL. The trip is an okay trip, but not all that exciting.
I'm a huge talk radio fan. I rather like Tony Snow, Neal Boortz, Glenn Beck, and many others. However, I'm not a huge Rush Limbaugh fan (for some reason, he just grates on my nerves). I also like Michael Savage and Dave Ramsey (No car debt for me!). It saddens me that Tony Snow is leaving to go to do the White House gig, but I'll get over it.
So i'm in a rental car Chevy Malibu, which is okay. I was supposed to be in a Full Size, but all they had was a Taurus with a cassette player (does anyone still listen to those?). So I switched to a midsize with a cd player.
I took off for my little trip, and was listening to my A.M. radio on 600 A.M. here in Memphis. Glenn Beck took me till about 40 or so miles out of Memphis. I flipped through the stations, but could not find a good talk radio station. So I get out my David Crowder cd to listen to, but the stupid cd player is broken. (Thanks Enterprise, you'll come pick me up but you can't fix a cd player!)
So I flipped back to the Glenn Beck program, who is by now just a faint small voice overshadowed by a load of static. As I flip through all the stations, that is what I continue to get -- a faint voice overshadowed by static -- all the way to Huntsville.
You know what though? I continued to try my hardest to listen to every station I picked up, until I could no longer hear any words being said. I would wait until the static completely took over before I would change the station.
We do this so often with God. We are tuned in to God, but the static starts to enter in to our lives. We continue to listen to God, even though the static gets louder and louder. Eventually, the static takes complete control of our focus of God, and all we hear is the static.
There is so much static in the world. The interference and the noise that clouds our lives is taking over. God is getting harder to focus on, because there are so many other distractions. We have to remember that we can not wipe away the interference on our own. We have to refocus on God. We have to change that channel when the static starts to come in, so we can have a clearer focus on God.
I'm a huge talk radio fan. I rather like Tony Snow, Neal Boortz, Glenn Beck, and many others. However, I'm not a huge Rush Limbaugh fan (for some reason, he just grates on my nerves). I also like Michael Savage and Dave Ramsey (No car debt for me!). It saddens me that Tony Snow is leaving to go to do the White House gig, but I'll get over it.
So i'm in a rental car Chevy Malibu, which is okay. I was supposed to be in a Full Size, but all they had was a Taurus with a cassette player (does anyone still listen to those?). So I switched to a midsize with a cd player.
I took off for my little trip, and was listening to my A.M. radio on 600 A.M. here in Memphis. Glenn Beck took me till about 40 or so miles out of Memphis. I flipped through the stations, but could not find a good talk radio station. So I get out my David Crowder cd to listen to, but the stupid cd player is broken. (Thanks Enterprise, you'll come pick me up but you can't fix a cd player!)
So I flipped back to the Glenn Beck program, who is by now just a faint small voice overshadowed by a load of static. As I flip through all the stations, that is what I continue to get -- a faint voice overshadowed by static -- all the way to Huntsville.
You know what though? I continued to try my hardest to listen to every station I picked up, until I could no longer hear any words being said. I would wait until the static completely took over before I would change the station.
We do this so often with God. We are tuned in to God, but the static starts to enter in to our lives. We continue to listen to God, even though the static gets louder and louder. Eventually, the static takes complete control of our focus of God, and all we hear is the static.
There is so much static in the world. The interference and the noise that clouds our lives is taking over. God is getting harder to focus on, because there are so many other distractions. We have to remember that we can not wipe away the interference on our own. We have to refocus on God. We have to change that channel when the static starts to come in, so we can have a clearer focus on God.
Tuesday, May 02, 2006
Cinco de Mayo
My dad sent this to me. To really appreciate the humor in this, I really really despise Mayonaise.
Read on:
Most people don't know that back in 1912, Hellmann's mayonnaise wasmanufactured in England.In fact, the Titanic was carrying 12,000 jars of the condiment scheduled for delivery in Veracruz, Mexico,which was to be the next port of call for the great ship after its stop in New York.
This would have been the largest single shipment of mayonnaise ever delivered to Mexico.But as we know, the great ship did not make it to New York.The ship hit an iceberg and sank, and the cargo was forever lost.
The people of Mexico, who were crazy about mayonnaise,and were eagerly awaiting its delivery, were disconsolate at the loss.Their anguish was so great, that they declared a National Day of Mourning,which they still observe to this day.
The National Day of Mourning occurs each year on May 5thand is known, of course, as Sinko de Mayo.
Have a great day everyone.
Read on:
Most people don't know that back in 1912, Hellmann's mayonnaise wasmanufactured in England.In fact, the Titanic was carrying 12,000 jars of the condiment scheduled for delivery in Veracruz, Mexico,which was to be the next port of call for the great ship after its stop in New York.
This would have been the largest single shipment of mayonnaise ever delivered to Mexico.But as we know, the great ship did not make it to New York.The ship hit an iceberg and sank, and the cargo was forever lost.
The people of Mexico, who were crazy about mayonnaise,and were eagerly awaiting its delivery, were disconsolate at the loss.Their anguish was so great, that they declared a National Day of Mourning,which they still observe to this day.
The National Day of Mourning occurs each year on May 5thand is known, of course, as Sinko de Mayo.
Have a great day everyone.
Monday, May 01, 2006
Our Silent Auction for Honduras
Hey everyone! Thursday of last week was national stress day, declared by me. Today, is "I've finally made it past National Stress weekend day" for me. On Friday night, we had our Silent Auction and dinner. We sold right at 100 tickets for it, and about 75 were attendance, not counting our team members.
We had 63 items for everyone to bid on, then we also sold our team members for servant work. As far as the money goes, Total profit we made:
No, its not going to cover the cost of the entire trip, but it helps. We still probably have around $4500 to go, but its better than having $16000 or even $20000 to go! Our team members wrote letters to raise money as well, and we're doing pretty good with that avenue.
So on Saturday, I also got to cut the grass, weedeat the yard, go to the store, cleaned the entire house, and cleaned our carpet. After that, we had our good friends Michael and Catherine over to feed them for taking care of our beloved Chloe a few weeks ago.
Yesterday, we had church services, a Honduras meeting, and teen life group. Needless to say, I'm tired, but i'm excited that its all over.
Rapidly, summer is approaching, which is of course the busiest time for a youth minister. Tons of trips planned, and lots of fun days to go with it.
Thanks for everyone's support of the silent auction!!
We had 63 items for everyone to bid on, then we also sold our team members for servant work. As far as the money goes, Total profit we made:
No, its not going to cover the cost of the entire trip, but it helps. We still probably have around $4500 to go, but its better than having $16000 or even $20000 to go! Our team members wrote letters to raise money as well, and we're doing pretty good with that avenue.
So on Saturday, I also got to cut the grass, weedeat the yard, go to the store, cleaned the entire house, and cleaned our carpet. After that, we had our good friends Michael and Catherine over to feed them for taking care of our beloved Chloe a few weeks ago.
Yesterday, we had church services, a Honduras meeting, and teen life group. Needless to say, I'm tired, but i'm excited that its all over.
Rapidly, summer is approaching, which is of course the busiest time for a youth minister. Tons of trips planned, and lots of fun days to go with it.
Thanks for everyone's support of the silent auction!!
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